Comments on Profile Post by Josh83

  1. Thad E Ginathom
    Thad E Ginathom
    I don't know the song, but "big divorce" alone sounds pretty bad. In the literal, marital sense?
    Apr 26, 2024
  2. crenca
    crenca
    Damn...
    Apr 26, 2024
  3. Armaegis
    Armaegis
    That sucks dude, but on the plus side now you can build a big unsightly speaker rig!
    Apr 26, 2024
  4. Josh83
    Josh83
    Thanks, guys. Yes, it’s in the literal marital sense. After 12 years. Very sudden and expected and chaotic. On the plus side, I’m proving to be more resilient than I gave myself credit for.
    Apr 26, 2024
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  5. Josh83
    Josh83
    Apr 26, 2024
  6. atomicbob
    atomicbob
    Such life events are never pleasant. May the process go as well as possible for you.
    Apr 26, 2024
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  7. Claritas
    Claritas
    A good lawyer—and I mean *really* good = peace of mind. Take it from a Jew.
    Apr 26, 2024
  8. roughroad
    roughroad
    I'm a two-time loser. In one, she divorced me; in the 2nd, I divorced her (what a bitch). At the time(s), it can be pretty awful. But, as the saying goes, time heals all wounds.
    Apr 26, 2024
  9. Armaegis
    Armaegis
    Speaking from experience: do not throw yourself into work, do not power through it. I stubbornly thought I could fix myself and it threw me into such a gradual downward spiral that I did not recognize the depression that was so cleverly hidden that I fooled even myself. Lost nearly ten years of my life after the split which was longer than the time we were together.
    Apr 26, 2024
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  10. Thad E Ginathom
    Thad E Ginathom
    Out of C, S, N and Y, Y is my least favourite. But I'll listen to the song, thanks @Josh83.

    All the best with the life rearrangement. Happened to a friend of mine a couple of years ago. Financially, it put him back 30 years, but he still says he's happier (and looks it) and having a better life now.
    Apr 27, 2024
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  11. Thad E Ginathom
    Thad E Ginathom
    "I'll listen to the song"

    ... Enjoyed it.

    I have found in the past that Young's songs don't ring true. Like he's nowhere near as wise as he's pretending to be. I found that even more since I got old. But this one did.
    Apr 27, 2024