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  1. Ryu

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    Just another thing to practice I suppose. Thanks for the advice.
     
  2. SoupRKnowva

    SoupRKnowva Official SBAF South Korean Ambassador

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    I would imagine he meant practice talking to women in a natural manner so as to not appear awkward or creepy...but I guess it's easier to be snarky. Though I do agree with your previous post
     
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    Point taken but I think Ryu is genuinely clueless and would like to know more. I agree that the main thing is to treat women as fully human and not subject them to the male gaze. Anyway, at least he's bothering to ask instead of believing pickup artists/the darker corners of the internet.
    Ryu, you are not in the U.S., are you? Dating norms and what is conventionally attractive change from country to country but yes, treat women as people with agency and assume their main concern is not romance. Get to know someone, if they seem like they like talking to you, and do it without a bunch of ulterior motives (i.e. don't listen to what she has to say so you can get to the part where you kiss). If you two click it seems pretty natural to then stay in touch, ask them out or invite them to a friends party, etc. For shy or inexperienced people the classic mistake is to be so cautious or hesitant that the other person does not think you are interested. They aren't going to wait around for you to ask them out, if they meet someone else they will go on about their business. Or if they remain single you might just be that guy they talked to a long way back and they would no longer be interested. The "friend zone" is not what women do to "nice guys" but what happens when either 1) a guy is terrible at signaling his intent and assumes women can read his mind or 2) a woman is trying to be nice about the fact that they clearly are not interested and societal pressure dictates they do not state this clearly or else they will be a "bitch" etc.
     
  4. Ryu

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    You guys are killing me... I thought it was common knowledge to treat humans with respect.. f'ing millennials man..

    Edit: I am from the USA.
     
  5. MuppetFace

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    Everyone's different, and I don't really subscribe to any sort of universal pick up strategies beyond a few very basic things. It sounds cliche as all hell, but seriously just be yourself. Try to be confident in who you are; insecurity is often considered a turn-off.

    Be honest and up front about what you're looking for. Which means you have to know just what you're looking for in the first place. Know thyself.

    Don't seem too desperate or lonely: a little aloofness leads to curiosity. A bit of arrogance can be appealing to some, but don't be too self centered; show them that you're genuinely interested in what they're saying as well.





    The electronic music thread here on SBAF is filled with a lot of ambient electronica recommendations. You should check out my post about some of it, along with the response by Garns:

    http://www.superbestaudiofriends.org/index.php?threads/electronic-music-thread.36/page-11#post-81226

    Check out:
    1. Kompakt's Pop Ambient series
    2. early Detroit and dub techno fusion stuff like Basic Channel, Echospace, Deepchord, Intrusion, Variant, CV313
    3. minimalist and ambient electronica like Loscil, Monolake, GAS, The Field, Biosphere
    4. atmospheric industrial and dark ambient stuff like Demdike Stare, Beyond Sensory Experience, Lustmord, some Nordvargr
     
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  6. Azteca

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    I'll quit hijacking the Muppetface thread but the last thing I'll say is that what is attractive is someone who seems confident. The cruel truth of being single is that when you are low and hurting you are generally unattractive to others. Even if they went out with you, it would end up being a bad and messy situation (citation: my life). If you seem like you know you are, and you're good with who you are, people will want to know you. If you seem like you really need some validation from other people, it will be a turn-off or red flag. This also happens to be the state where you can enter into a relationship because you like that person and want to get to know them instead of trying to not hate yourself or check "find companion" off the list. So when I had a huge traumatic break-up I did my moping, then I spent a whole lot of time with friends instead of being alone in my room and worked on doing things that brought me joy or interested me. Having a social life and interests or hobbies also happen to be really attractive qualities. So work on yourself and others will want to know you. You don't need to be perfect, or hide your emotions. But don't enter into situations where you're making other people responsible for your emotional wellbeing or self esteem. It's not fair to them and it's dangerous for you.

    Ok, time for me to ask a question. I like all sorts of electronic stuff and some ambient stuff. Do you like any of the UK bass music - you know, all the dubstep, grime, garage and jungle offshoots? I really enjoy labels like Deep Medi, Night Slugs, Tectonic, Swamp 81, Blacklist, Innamind, Black Acre. Listen to a lot of Rinse.FM, NTS and Radar Radio shows as well. Lately producers like Gantz, Commodo, Pinch and Mumdance have been pushing things into some dark and weird directions in their releases and radio appearances.

    This is just my Soundcloud likes so it's very scattered but some good stuff in here. https://soundcloud.com/elmaslo/likes
     
  7. purr1n

    purr1n Desire for betterer is endless.

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    I'd like to see a modern take on the Four Gospels. Perhaps a three hour film with four different narratives of the Life of Jesus directed by Michael Bay, JJ Abrams, Steven Spielberg, and Ron Howard. It kind of felt that like when I read them.

    Random Thought: I am so glad new member registrations are closed.
     
  8. MuppetFace

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    I'm a total film nerd. You have been warned.

    I like silent era stuff: Buster Keaton in particular is one of my big crushes, so I'm mesmerized just watching him perform. Also love Murnau's work and the aesthetics of German Expressionism. Theodor Dreyer is great too, but I like his voiced works the most.

    I like early works of realism like Vittorio de Sica's Bicycle Thieves and Ozu's Tokyo Story. One of my all time favorite directors is Satyajit Ray; see his Apu Trilogy if you haven't already.

    My favorite director of all time is Kenji Mizoguchi. Everyone who likes film should see Ugetsu and Sansho the Bailiff. The latter is, IMHO, the greatest film ever made. The ending sequence is, IMHO, the single greatest moment in cinematic history.

    I dig artsy fartsy French stuff like Godard's Contempt and The Weekend. Also keen on Truffaut and find him a bit more to my humanistic tastes. Same for the more depressing visions of Robert Bresson (Au Hasard Balthazar breaks my heart).

    When it comes to the Italians, I'm actually not that keen of Fellini. Too circus-y for me, with an exception being Nights of Cabiria. I'm much more of a de Sica fan, along with Antonioni and Rossellini. When it comes to the circus-energy thing, I'm waaaay more into the epic Serbian comedies of Emir Kusturica. The film Black Cat White Cat is love.

    I guess I'm most drawn to meditative long takes when it comes to the artsy fartsy. Andrei Tarkovsky and his successor Alexander Sokurov are untouchable when you're in the right mood. Tarkovsky's Stalker and Nostalghia are definite favorites.

    When it comes to sheer directorial prowess though, my gruesome twosome are Theo Angelopoulos (RIP)--- who sadly isn't that well known outside Europe---and the Hungarian nihilist master, Bela Tarr. You like heavy, depressing, atmospheric film? The cinematic equivalent of SUNN O))) ...? Bela Tarr might be for you. Just set aside several hours and your positivity.

    Speaking of depressing, I can't just NOT name drop Werner Herzog. Stroszek is likely his greatest film (with another one of the greatest endings in cinematic history). I'm partial to Aguirre though just because of the trance-like state it can put you into, thanks largely in part to that incredible Popol Vuh soundtrack. If you haven't heard Popol Vuh.... GO LISTEN!

    I love R.W. Fassbinder's character studies and his use of subtle framing in his shots. In a Year With 13 Moons is prolly my favorite of his works.

    I'm partial to unusual narrative styles---using media within media---such as Chantal Akerman's News From Home and Chris Marker's Sans Soleil.

    Of course I dig Ingmar Bergman: Wild Strawberries, The Virgin Spring, Winter Light, The Silence, Cries and Whispers, Fanny and Alexander...

    Some other name drops because why not at this point: Krzysztof Kieslowski, Roman Polanski, Sergei Paradjanov, Alain Resnais, Miklos Jancso, Derek Jarman, Aki Kaurismaki, Hou Hsiao Hsien, Apichatpong Weerasethakul, Tsai Ming-Liang, Park Chan-Wook, Michael Haneke, blah blah blah...

    My favorite director for dreamy romance is Wong Kar-Wai.
    For surrealism I love Luis Bunuel (<3 Viridiana) and Guy Maddin (<3 Careful).
    Most underrated director? Victor Erice.
    Most overrated? Gaspar Noe (although Enter the Void was incredible in its own horrific way...)

    In additional to all that artsy fartsy stuff I listed, I also love horror schlock, kitschy weirdness, and cult classics. Stuff like Hausu, The Coffin Joe Trilogy, Poor Pretty Eddie, Black Christmas, Re-Animator, They Live, Carpenter's The Thing, Robocop, 2000 Maniacs, The Witch Who Came From the Sea, Putney Swope, Shock Corridor, Eyes Without a Face, Mad Love (w/ Peter Lorre), Peeping Tom, and one of my all time favorites, The Ruling Class.

    I dig the Iranian New Wave, especially Abbas Kiarostami (<3 Close-Up).

    Favorite American director is unquestionably John Cassavetes. Also love the guy as an actor; Mikey and Nicky is a great film.

    Favorite American film of all time though is either Night of the Hunter or A Face In the Crowd.
     
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    Definitely more of a dub techno fan than a dubstep fan (for those wondering: they are completely different lol). I do however like Burial. Who doesn't? Burial is awesome. As for grime, I dig Rabit at the moment.

    Night Slugs and Tectonic are good labels, yeah.

    I like Pinch, 2562, Logos, Egyptrixxx, Girl Unit...

    I'm also fond of breakcore in *very* small doses. Shitmat's Full English Breakfast is probably my favorite example.


    Am I bringing the noise? Hopefully some of the funk, too.
     
  10. purr1n

    purr1n Desire for betterer is endless.

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    Nope. The noise was before, but keeping borders open could have brought all sorts of weirdness in. I think we have enough people already to make this thread interesting.
     
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    Oh geez... I have waaaay too many IEMs to remember them all off the top of my head. I definitely have an assortment of favorites that I use more often than most, and the rest just sort of gather dust until I decide to pick one up at random and reacquaint myself with it. Which sometimes leads to a pleasant surprise. Or sometimes I think, "why on Earth did I buy this?"

    Right now my Sennheiser IE800 is getting a lot of ear time, although I find myself EQing them a bit with some tracks. Same with the JVC FX1100. The FitEar Melomane on the other hand is fairly agreeable from the get-go, and I suppose these three have been my current go-tos. For now. I'm sure I'll find something else to take their places soon enough.

    Truth be told, I've been preoccupied with full-sized headphones---namely the PMx2 which I'm really enamored with and the Utopias which I'm kinda on the fence about---so my time spent with in-ears has been fairly limited.

    I'm waiting on a deal for the Campfire Andromeda, and the newer models have definitely piqued my interest. Might end up selling the Utopia and using that to fund such purchases.

    As for qualifications among princes for proposal, I imagine some kind of dowry and socio-political engineering is involved. Not the most romantic stuff if you ask me!
     
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    Burial is indeed - awesome. Those soundscapes created with fruity loops and pair of Sony headphones are superb. Thanks for a lot of the music recommendations. New musical discoveries always welcome!
     
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    awesome list + commentary @MuppetFace. Godard was right when he said all you need is two actors and a car to make a movie good. should be a comforting thought for the poor directors out there. too much good stuff in the post to actually respond, but il posto is really good if you liked bicycle thieves, which is f'ing heart-wrenching. and i'm sure this next statement will be highly polarizing but-- one of my favorite american directors is terrence malick.
     
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    Top list!

    The GAS records are amazing, both as a concept (Wagner and German oompah music get lost in a forest on acid) and in their glorious smudgy execution. Best heard while leafing through a coffee table book of Max Ernst paintings.

    Slight derail - here's a few other ambient things to check out in the spirit of @MuppetFace's list:
    For 2) try also Porter Ricks "Biokinetics"; Infiniti; Model 500 "Deep Space" and "Starlight";
    For 3) try also Heavenly Music Corporation; Pharos "Seti"; Sun Electric "30.7.94 Live";
    For 4) try also Thomas Köner; Lull; PGR; and (particularly) Coil "Time Machines".
     
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    Recently I was actually asked out by a girl because I treated her like a person.

    The first three times I casually asked her out she said maybe but we kept talking. Then she asked me.

    I thought she friend-zoned me but no, she was testing me. She is worth it.
     
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    I was always confused by the contrast between the Old Testament and the New Testament. To be honest after several re-reads as a kid when I still went to church I gave up on the New Testament. Seriously how many versions do you need to confuse the sheeple? Even theologians are at a loss about this.

    Yeah I prefer the Proverbs because they are actually quite practical when you think and look at their context. The New Testament, oh dear too many versions, interpretations, preachings and then the Revelations to top it off.

    @Marvey , you should add Mel Brooks ;)
     
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    @MuppetFace , impressive film taste! Loved Antonioni as a kid. Thought the tracking shot at the end of The Passenger was amazing.
     
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    @MuppetFace ... Have you ever read a book called the Master and Margarita by Mikhail Bulgakov? Have you seen the enormously-long, Russian film of the book?
     
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    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Master_and_Margarita_(1994_film)

    Running Time: 205 Minutes :eek::eek::eek:

    Edit: It was on April 4, 2011. Luxor shortened the film to 118 minutes from the original director's cut, which was 240 minutes long.
     
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    Yes, quite possibly; I didn't time it. If you know and love the book, it is worth every minute! And... I think I watched it in at least three sessions. I have no idea how it would be to someone who does not know the book, but it is (as far as a non-Russian speaker who probably misses a lot of the political satire can tell) pretty true to it. I guess it takes a lot longer to read the book though.

    I'm grateful to a Russian friend on another forum who sent me the CDs. I did check that they would have English subtitles before accepting her offer.
     

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